We should talk. I mean really talk. I don't mean the usual chit-chat, the talk about kids and work and what's for dinner. I mean about politics. When we're together we do everything we can to side-step the issue and it does keep us friendly, but you must have noticed that the upcoming presidential election is becoming the bull elephant in the room.
I know you won't want to hear this, and I hear you when you tell me it's none of my business, but for a couple of weeks now I've been especially worried about where you're going with the men in your life. It strikes not just me but a lot of us that the relationship is becoming, well--abusive.
At the moment these four men--Mitt Romney, Rick Santorum, Newt Gingrich and Ron Paul--are vying for your affections and from where I sit no matter which one you choose it'll be bad news for you. And, okay, if any one of them wins, it'll be bad for me too. But it's you who has to take control of the situation. When any one of the four tells you he's going to work hard to take away a woman's right to free birth control it's really disheartening for the rest of us to have to watch you applaud and cheer, as if he is God's gift and aren't you lucky to have him?
At least one of them, Rick Santorum (father of seven, no surprise) doesn't believe in birth control in any form. He says birth control can actually be "harmful to women", suggesting that it promotes sex outside of procreation, which apparently, even for those of us not still living in Medieval times, is a bad thing:
"One of the things I will talk about, that no president has talked about before, is I think the dangers of contraception in this country.... Many of the Christian faith have said, well, that's okay, contraception is okay. It's not okay. It's a license to do things in a sexual realm that is counter to how things are supposed to be."
He blames "radical feminists" for taking women out of the home and into the workplace, yet he's done nothing to help improve the economy enough so that women who want to stay home can stay home. In his book, "It Takes a Family: Conservatism and the Common Good," written in 2005, he wrote: "Sadly the propaganda campaign launched in the 1960s has taken root. The radical feminists succeeded in undermining the traditional family and convincing women that professional accomplishments are the key to happiness."
Ron Paul, a former OB/GYN and a Libertarian to boot, said, “Forcing private religious institutions to pay for contraception and sterilization as part of their health care plans is a direct assault on the First Amendment’s guarantee of religious liberty. On my first day as President, I will reverse this policy.”
Sexual harassment in the workplace? No problem, women. Dr. Paul says just quit:
'Employee rights are said to be valid when employers pressure employees into sexual activity. Why don’t they quit once the so-called harassment starts? Obviously the morals of the harasser cannot be defended, but how can the harassee escape some responsibility for the problem? Seeking protection under civil rights legislation is hardly acceptable."Newt Gingrich believes strongly in a Personhood Amendment that says life begins at conception--a loony view with ramifications for everything from the Morning After pill to in vitro fertilization. In his bid to destroy Planned Parenthood he lied when he said the organization's main thrust was performing abortions. He went so far as to pull a fantastical number out of the air--90% of all services were abortions--when the truer number is three percent out of nearly 5 million visits a year. In truth, only 34 percent of visits to Planned Parenthood are for reproductive services.
My question is, what is it you see in those men? When you're out there applauding and encouraging men who want to take womanhood back to the status forced on us even as late as the middle of the 20th century, does it bother you even a little bit that you're egging them on, knowing--because they've told you in every way possible--they want to own every little piece of you?
(Cross-posted at dagblog, where the men outnumber us but they never try to outsmart us)
I have always been baffled as to why anyone who is a woman, or an immigrant, or gay, or black, or an atheist, or a member of ANY minority group would even CONSIDER supporting republicans, who are dead set on taking away their freedoms or even sending them out of the country or worse. Yet they do, and by the millions at that. Are Americans really this stupid? If so, we are well and truly doomed to a future of fascism.ReplyDelete
Religion. Especially in the south. When people are poor they are easy to mold. They know they will NEVER be rich, so they settle on being rich in heaven.Delete
I have always been baffled as to why anyone would even CONSIDER supporting politicians. Yet they do, and by the millions at that. Are Americans really this stupid? If so, we are well and truly doomed to a future of fascismDelete
It's rather simple, isn't it? These women see easy money in them. What else is there to see that's worth seeing?ReplyDelete
Unless you're married to one of them, where is the easy money? From what I can see, those "gentlemen" aren't keen on sharing--not with women, anyway. Or children. Or the working class. Or the very poor. Or anyone outside their own ranks.Delete
I think the best is Newt. He has an open marriage, so his off-camera behavior includes Callista's hot tub parties. He may even be like that wormy little guy who appears on O'Reilly and used to be a Clinton advisor prior to his being caught red handed with a prostitute who told all: this guy wanted to dress up in panties and bra and have a three way with another male. You don't suppose Newtie is into that kind of thing, too? You know, to look at him, he would make a perfectly good drag version of anyone's grandma.ReplyDelete
Wonderful post, which hopefully some of those conservative gals will read. I find your argument so persuasive that many of "those women" would be swayed by it.ReplyDelete
MIke, I sincerely wish the GOP women who endorse these men would stop and think about what it would mean if they gave that kind of power to any one of them. Those male candidates feel comfortable saying the most radical things about birth control and any other issue reserved for women because they're not talking to me or you, they're talking to their base.Delete
It's incredible that women in these times would want to revert back to the old days when our rights were blocked at every turn by mysoginistic male leaders, but there it is. A heavy battle ahead.
Let us know if you get an answer! Ha!ReplyDelete
Ha, Beth. It's been two weeks now and it's silence. Nothing but silence. You could hear a pin drop.Delete
LOVE IT!!! I got here late, via a Pinterest user who pinned your medieval birthing image today (10-6-12), not unwittingly, I hope. And I hope I haven't outed her by commenting the post behind the link was splendid.ReplyDelete
Yes to all you said, and thank you for saying it.
Ha! It's never too late to acknowledge what's happening to Republican women. Maybe with enough voices we can actually get through to them before November.Delete
I don't quite get Pinterest yet, but I'm glad it brought you here. Thanks for commenting.